You wanna know what really pisses me
off sometimes? When the supporters of someone who didn’t win make comments like
“you were so much better than her” and “you deserved it, you should’ve won”. They
never consider what the winner is thinking when they overhear these comments.
The people that say those things don’t even consider how much effort the winner
put into whatever contest this was. All they think about is their biased
opinions about someone who probably didn’t win fair and square.
Yes, I understand that in the heat
of the moment you want to comfort someone after they’ve been beat. They
probably tried hard to win, and may or may not have thought that they deserved
to win. But going around proclaiming how unfair it was that the winner won isn’t
gonna make anyone else feel better. Sometimes you need to know when to shut up
and hold it until later. If you feel like making these comments to make the “loser”
feel better, do it in private. Cause often the winner worked very hard to win
and doesn’t need your biased opinions to bring them down.
♥ Diary of a Teen
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